Despite the fact my condition that I thought I had dealt with at Leven House reared it's distgusting ugly head again and harder than ever, I agree with this meme. Despite the fact that my abusers and neglecters and perhaps some of my genetic make up are to be held responsible, I have the ownership and accountability of my condition. I wish I knew then what I know now and had the support I have now, 4 or 5 years ago or more because I wouldn't have lost the one person I held de