The Family Dynamics of Patients With Borderline Personality Why do some people create havoc in their relationships?  The role of the Spoiler In my last post, I discussed how children act out certain roles in their family of origin in order to try to emotionally stabilize parents who are emotional unstable. Doing so also has the effect of maintaining dysfunctional relationship patterns so that the family operates in predictable ways (family homeostasis). In today's post,

I am sad. I am angry. I am OK. I am anxious. I am happy. I am numb. I am every emotion rolled into one.

I like this blog entry by Debbie and totaly relate all the way. Debbies blog can be found Here! I'm a splitter. I find this very damaging to my life. I am working very hard and mindfully on it. I'm not alone though. We are not alone. Anyway ..... Debbies blog entry: When I connect with someone I like and begin to spend time with them, it's not unusual for me to become totally enamored by or even preoccupied with them and how absolutely wonderful they are. It's also not unusua